Who could get any support under this concept of "not everyone gets that kinda support".
That seems like an absurd standard... this person has cancer and now we're supposed to put the world of "not everyone" on them and expect them to what? Not post anything?
That's what common decency would suggest, yes. There's ways to do it of course, and one should confer with wiser people around them on how to do it. If there is a hospital full of 100 dying patients, and I offer one of them the chance to go viral (maybe they just have some viral quality that others don't), I would hope that one person doesn't take it. The whole thing is very somber and needs to be handled in that way. Nothing about this is easy, and I am suggesting modesty in the face of suffering.
Comedy might be the best analogy. There are ways to do it around sensitive topics. The go-ahead to do something is not as simple as "well I think it's funny", or in this case "well I'm the one that's dying".
But how is Sydney posting Tiktoks taking anything away from anybody else? She's not profiting off the suffering of others, she's making the best of the shitty situation she is in through no fault of her own.
I did, but I still don't see where you're coming from.
> The whole thing is very somber and needs to be handled in that way
Why does it "need" to be that way? Who are you to tell her how to live her life and handle her potential death? Are the Irish also "wrong" for having happy drinking parties at funerals where they reminisce about the dead, instead of sitting around mourning?
There is a reason why every grave at the Normandy beach cemetery is the same. Look, I totally get society doesn't have this sensibility, we live in a ridiculous ostentatious world. I'm fine with most of you not getting it.
I read it several times. It all just seems to me to be an excuse to be less compassionate to another person. If that's your end result, it is what it is.
That seems like an absurd standard... this person has cancer and now we're supposed to put the world of "not everyone" on them and expect them to what? Not post anything?