I did, but I still don't see where you're coming from.
> The whole thing is very somber and needs to be handled in that way
Why does it "need" to be that way? Who are you to tell her how to live her life and handle her potential death? Are the Irish also "wrong" for having happy drinking parties at funerals where they reminisce about the dead, instead of sitting around mourning?
There is a reason why every grave at the Normandy beach cemetery is the same. Look, I totally get society doesn't have this sensibility, we live in a ridiculous ostentatious world. I'm fine with most of you not getting it.
> The whole thing is very somber and needs to be handled in that way
Why does it "need" to be that way? Who are you to tell her how to live her life and handle her potential death? Are the Irish also "wrong" for having happy drinking parties at funerals where they reminisce about the dead, instead of sitting around mourning?