I think you may be confusing morally culpability with legal culpability.
If you encourage someone to commit adultery, you are morally culpable, just as if you encourage someone to commit murder, you are morally culpable. The only difference is that, in the case of murder, you are also legally culpable.
But they deserve being hunted down by lynch mob of defrauded cheaters for that removal fee extortion.