That's super-great for you, but what if work people don't want to do 
   something that you enjoy? Lemme guess: you won't hang out with them, right? 
   Because that'd be a waste of your time.

Yes, exactly! I hang out with them when we do stuff together I enjoy; when they don't I decline. eg I find baseball boring, so when invited I say thanks but no thanks.

It's like being an adult with a life. This is clearly upsetting to you for some strange reason.