Of course it is. You seem adamant you want them to behave in a human way. Humans have behavioural patterns that are influenced by their childhoods, and sometimes those are particularly messy.

So... you either wish to replicate that or you don't.

"behave in a human way" is a vague reference to a more specific, non-psychological idea that I presented earlier.

I just explained that to you. Either we discuss this in terms of the imitation game thought experiment, or we don't.