I like the way logseq works, as it's bullet-based and you can link to individual bullets. Development seems to have lost it's way, and online options like Tana are complex and unappealing.

I finally bit the bullet and just went with Obsidian, as that's where all the community activity is. If there's a way to connect something with notes, or some cool functionality in a plugin, you'll find it with Obsidian.