I'm not 100% sure, but I've heard from oncologists and other docs that people with bad diagnoses often lash out at doctors and family who are trying to help them.
Some people also go into denial about what's happening, and denial can be fatal. This is not quite 100% on point, but my wife wrote a story about meeting a patient whose large mass on the side of her neck had not been there for just a couple days: https://bessstillman.substack.com/p/just-because-you-wont-se...: "Per triage, my patient’s symptoms started yesterday and she’s worried that the swelling might be an infection or maybe a pulled muscle, but the moment I walk into the room I know that I’m going to ruin her life."
Some attempt to take the hedonic path that would not, I think, be very satisfying, and yet they pursue it (heedlessly spending down cash on trinkets, the non-prescribed drugs you might imagine, Vegas, etc.). This is distinct from someone who decides: "I've always wanted to visit Tokyo and now I'm finally going to do it."
I think it's good to try and lead and positive, generative life, even when what is left of that life is limited, and when what "positive, generative" means will vary widely by person.
Some people also go into denial about what's happening, and denial can be fatal. This is not quite 100% on point, but my wife wrote a story about meeting a patient whose large mass on the side of her neck had not been there for just a couple days: https://bessstillman.substack.com/p/just-because-you-wont-se...: "Per triage, my patient’s symptoms started yesterday and she’s worried that the swelling might be an infection or maybe a pulled muscle, but the moment I walk into the room I know that I’m going to ruin her life."
Some attempt to take the hedonic path that would not, I think, be very satisfying, and yet they pursue it (heedlessly spending down cash on trinkets, the non-prescribed drugs you might imagine, Vegas, etc.). This is distinct from someone who decides: "I've always wanted to visit Tokyo and now I'm finally going to do it."
I think it's good to try and lead and positive, generative life, even when what is left of that life is limited, and when what "positive, generative" means will vary widely by person.