How common DRAM errors are is very unclear. The numbers in that paper are astronomically high, but other sources have published numbers that are 30x or 100,000x or literally 10,000,000x lower.
I don't think there's a confirmed source, but there's certainly indications, for example, an AWS post that they use ECC memory for the GPUs in their cluster GPU instance
Given that they list both the standard memory and GPU memory next to each other, but only put ECC next to the GPU memory, it seems relatively likely to me that the standard server memory is not ECC.
I was not able to find Amazon declaring that they don't, but neither do they say anywhere that they do. For example they describe the hardware specs here: http://aws.amazon.com/ec2/instance-types/ If they did have ECC RAM it is unlikely that they would keep it secret, especially given that ECC RAM can be twice as expensive.
See this Stanford ee380 talk: http://stanford-online.stanford.edu/courses/ee380/100922-ee3...
The part about DRAM errors is about 57 minutes in.
Abstract here: http://www.stanford.edu/class/ee380/Abstracts/100922.html
Also, AFAIK most hosting providers don't even have ECC ram as an option for servers, e.g. Amazon.