Very relunctantly, VS Code. The bit I'm actually having the hardest time with is IntellIj's SQL/DB stuff

Thats funny, because their DB tooling is the most bloated and useless for me. DBeaver does it's job well without any massive memory usage

I work in a reallly really massive DB. It works well, and groks all of our crazy schemas, triggers, etc.

Plus I’m really really getting tired of spending $80 every year for the privilege of rent wring a license key.