I've tried on man and woman. Both cause dysphoria the same way the wrong binary does for binary trans people. There are aspects of one or the other I do mesh with, but I've talked to enough enbies and binary trans and cis people to be confident that one does in fact need an additional identity to cover it. My experience is unlike that of the many men and women I've talked to about this.
This is not something I casually glommed on to and never considered again. I've thought about it more than you likely have. You can't "everyone is the same maaaaan" this away.
I've tried on man and woman. Both cause dysphoria the same way the wrong binary does for binary trans people. There are aspects of one or the other I do mesh with, but I've talked to enough enbies and binary trans and cis people to be confident that one does in fact need an additional identity to cover it. My experience is unlike that of the many men and women I've talked to about this.
This is not something I casually glommed on to and never considered again. I've thought about it more than you likely have. You can't "everyone is the same maaaaan" this away.