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I mean extremely normal things, like grocery shopping, getting coffee in the morning before work, things that would be considered at best poor date ideas by most of the women I know. Sure, it fits the definition of dating, technically.


Getting coffee is a date. Sorry to break your special bubble, you guys dated:)


I get coffee with friends and coworkers too.


Happily married man here. I go to dinner one on one with my guy friends. That doesn't mean taking my wife out to dinner is not a date? Doing 'dating' things with friends is totally normal. It's a 'date' when you're doing it with someone you might marry.


I don't take my platonic friends to the nice French steakhouse downtown, though. Is going to Waffle House because you're hungry a date, or is it going to Waffle House because you're hungry?


> I don't take my platonic friends to the nice French steakhouse downtown, though.

Why not?


Because it sends the wrong message. You take a significant other there for special occasions, or you take a date there if you're really interested/really want to get laid.


Or you take your friend there because you both like steak and wine.


Apparently, you can only eat steak with someone else if you want to get laid. Who knew? I've been propositioned so many times and didn't even know what was happening. Hope I didn't leave all my buddies hanging.


Married man 1: "Hey do you want to eat steak?"

Married man 2: "Yeah"

Married man 1: "Wanna get steak together?"

Married man 2: "Yeah"

What message does that send? I don't see where anyone is propositioning anyone else.

> special occassions

You don't celebrate special occassions with friends? Why not? Honestly, this is the saddest thing about the US. Other than romantic things, no one cares to celebrate friendship.


I get steak with my (also married) best friend, but we go get reasonably priced steaks together.


I do literally everything except kiss and have sex with my friends and coworkers, I think dating is s bit broader than that so there is an overlap.




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