> And bosses are petty, they'll get revenge if they can.

It sounds like you're including yourself in the group you call "petty". And in an earlier part of the post, you talked about behavior that I'd consider vindictive.

Honest question: Are you happy that you behave that way, or do you wish you behaved differently?

I'm not criticizing. I'm genuinely curious about the different ways people see the world.