You can always choose to leave a city. You can't avoid polar orbits. A city warps the view in one place, while brightly lit polar orbiting satellites warp the view everywhere. That said, the Starlink sats are supposed to become invisible to the eye in their final orbits.
And thanks to LEO broadband, you can choose to leave the city and still have the high-speed internet that has proved to be necessary in this time of mandated shutdowns.