It's not about performance. Unary numbers are extremely cumbersome and confusing for proofs, because people are used to working with integers using arithmetic, not pattern matching. "x + 5" is infinitely better than "Succ(Succ(Succ(Succ(Succ(x)))))“. I suspect that dependently-typed languages will get at least a 50% boost in mindshare once they ditch the unary and rewrite the tutorials with regular numbers.
Please look at the OP. Notice the arithmetic expressions such as "Compute 3 + 4.", which returns "7 : nat" instead of a string of Succ applications to some Zero.
You're arguing against a problem that doesn't exist. Coq is fully capable of understanding decimal arithmetic. The fact that it uses a unary representation in proofs is not a burden that the user has to bear. (It's still a property that they can exploit of course, e.g. in inductive proofs.)
Have you actually done any proofs in one of these systems? (or used one?)
Natural numbers are used because of the induction principle you get: it's very useful, and generally straightforward to use in lots of contexts (e.g., just the other day I had students proving the correctness of multiplication implemented as iterated addition; the multiplication is over integers, but the inner loop is after you've ensured what you are iterating is non-negative, since you decrement each iteration, and _proving_ it is much more straightforward if you interpret the loop counter as a natural number).
And your point about syntax is also baffling: Coq will display natural numbers as decimal literals, not "S(S(S...".
>Unary numbers are extremely cumbersome and confusing for proofs, because people are used to working with integers using arithmetic, not pattern matching. "x + 5" is infinitely better than "Succ(Succ(Succ(Succ(Succ(x)))))“.
Have you ever written a proof using decimal numbers? Unary numbers (Peano numbers) only have two cases to match on: Z and Succ. Decimal numbers have at least ten. Even writing proofs for binary numbers in Coq is much more cumbersome than proving things about unary numbers.