>But this teeters dangerously close to gatekeeping
Why is gatekeeping something that one can be dangerously close to?
I gatekeep who my friends are. We gatekeep who our employers are. We gatekeep what actions we find acceptable from our children.
Gatekeeping is a form of discrimination, and while that has become a four letter word due to specific forms of discrimination that have caused massive amounts of harm, every day we engage in extremely reasonable forms of discriminating. Every day we make value judgments based on the information provided. Every day we use stereotypes that were built off of incomplete data but work well enough.
When I'm picking up cookies at the cookie store, I don't judge the individual cookie on its own merits. I stereotype it based on who produced it. Yes, this current batch could be horrendous, but without the ability to sample that batch directly there isn't any better information than judging it based on past experiences of similarly branded cookies from the same bakery.
Yes, sometimes our stereotypes and judgments we make based on incomplete information hurt others. We need to be guarded against it to ensure we don't cause others undue harm. But if I and others want to form a small community where only people who understand the joke "There is no place like 127.0.0.1." can join, is there really a problem with that?
Why is gatekeeping something that one can be dangerously close to?
I gatekeep who my friends are. We gatekeep who our employers are. We gatekeep what actions we find acceptable from our children.
Gatekeeping is a form of discrimination, and while that has become a four letter word due to specific forms of discrimination that have caused massive amounts of harm, every day we engage in extremely reasonable forms of discriminating. Every day we make value judgments based on the information provided. Every day we use stereotypes that were built off of incomplete data but work well enough.
When I'm picking up cookies at the cookie store, I don't judge the individual cookie on its own merits. I stereotype it based on who produced it. Yes, this current batch could be horrendous, but without the ability to sample that batch directly there isn't any better information than judging it based on past experiences of similarly branded cookies from the same bakery.
Yes, sometimes our stereotypes and judgments we make based on incomplete information hurt others. We need to be guarded against it to ensure we don't cause others undue harm. But if I and others want to form a small community where only people who understand the joke "There is no place like 127.0.0.1." can join, is there really a problem with that?