Saturday - Chess club in the morning followed by a leisurely lunch/reading in a comfortable coffee shop.
Sunday I spend with the family.
It wasn't intentional but having Saturday to myself til the evening meal is awesome for unwinding from a busy work week, everyone needs (or at least should try) genuine unplugged alone time (particularly so for natural introverts like me).
Every other Saturday I help out at a cat shelter, then have lunch at my "Saturday" cafe and work on my personal project while there. That evening I usually make cat food, watch dumb YouTube videos, and work on my project some more. When I'm not going to the shelter I sleep in a little and then go to the gym instead.
Sundays are usually chore days focused on animals and cleaning (well, we're trying to get better with the cleaning). This is when I do a water change for the fish, go shopping for meat for the cat food (and then prep the food), get any other cat supplies I might need, take the cat/s for a walk or supervise them on the porch, and tidy the house. Once all the pressing chores are done I work on my personal project and watch dumb YouTube videos.
Spending as much time not under a roof as possible. This typically means whitewater kayaking or climbing. This is the only way I can stay sane while having a desk job.
Ever actively switched off: videogames, gym ( if I didn't go enough in the other days), cleaning the house, going out, oversleeping and, in general, relaxing
With 3 & 5 yr old there is a lot to do and not much choice to do a tonne of leisure activities. If I get some spare minutes I'll do some hacking on some side projects, go for a walk, grab a coffee or something.
Sunday I spend with the family.
It wasn't intentional but having Saturday to myself til the evening meal is awesome for unwinding from a busy work week, everyone needs (or at least should try) genuine unplugged alone time (particularly so for natural introverts like me).