Couldn't have said it better - there's a huge variety of porn out there - and I personally dislike anything overtly "porn-star" like. There's truly something for all tastes when it comes to pornography on the internet - the fact that your significant other is seeking one type of porn above others probably signals his preferences moreso than his porn is dictating things to him.

It's the age-old causality question: do men choose porn based on existing sexual preferences, or does porn dictate people's sexual preferences? I'm more inclined to think that it's mostly the former and a bit of the latter.